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Cuckolding is a fairly popular fetish with men. A cuckold is a man that enjoys watching his significant other fuck other guys. Usually these other men are more attractive, more muscular, and more, uh, well-endowed. Here are some definitions that I’m going to be using in this article:

Bull: The more attractive, well-endowed male lover of the wife.

Hotwife: A slang term for a woman cuckolding her husband.

Cuck: The cuckolded husband.

As with any fetish, there are different degrees of cuckolding. Some men simply get off on watching (or hearing) their wife or girlfriend enjoying sex with another man, while some really enjoy being a submissive plaything to one or both of the other people. I had a regular that really enjoyed talking about his cuckold relationship, and he particularly got off on sucking his wife’s boyfriend’s cock. Does that make him bisexual? Gay? I don’t know. Most cucks maintain that they are straight men. Identifying a man’s sexual orientation isn’t really my specialty, especially since sexual orientation is such a touchy, politically sensitive subject nowadays.

This particular regular was also in a Dom/sub relationship with his wife, and she with her bull. In other words, the cuck was submissive to both parties, the hotwife was submissive to her bull, and the bull was dominant over the hotwife and the cuck. The bull wouldn’t allow the hotwife to fuck her husband anymore, as he was deemed an inadequate lover. Instead, the cuck was allowed to suck the bull’s cock and clean the wife’s pussy after she’d been fucked by her bull.

I read an article (you can read it here), that classified men with cuckolding fetishes as sadomasochistic. I guess I never really thought about it that way, but I think that’s pretty accurate. I can’t imagine it would feel good to have the person you love tell you that another person can satisfy them more than you can and that you’re inadequate. I think cuckoldry is a way for a guy to confront and funnel his self-loathing and/or “inadequacy” into something satisfying for both parties. Different people have different ways of dealing with their emotions, and I think cuckoldry is a very good example of that.

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